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Apr 8



I have done it and enjoy it once it starts but have a problem actually wanting to do it. Like I'm never just like lets have anal tonight. Maybe thats because I have always used alcohol to help lower my guard in the previous times that I have done anal to help with any pain I might feel. So I guess my question is how do you just do it? No alcohol or other substances to get it going...

Start small and work your way up to the cock. Use a finger or two, small toys that are intended for anal training, LOTS OF LUBE!!!!! (I recently discovered refined Coconut oil and I love it) Don't under estimate the power of lube when it comes to anal. I love anal and have been having it very regularly, but we still use lube. These are even things that you can do on your own. So you can work towards getting more comfortable with anal. Do it in the shower helps too if you're still working up to being comfortable with having anal sex.

Apr 9

I feel you @eagertolearn. I've done anal several times before and I've always enjoyed it but it takes some time for me to warm up to the idea of actually doing it.


I find that whenever I'm actually thinking about it to just say, "Hey let's do anal." But even then, sometimes I end up backing out haha

Apr 13

I’m exactly the same way. The first time I did it I was with my ex who we can just say was extremely “large” lol so it was very painful and when I have done it with others it’s not as bad. For me the feeling of it isnt Great, my body like pushes back and I am so tense that I don’t even feel it hitting my spot